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  • Re: 2009 Holiday Gift Guide for People in Wheelchairs

    Trish, Georgia Tech in Atlanta has developed some adaptations that are amazing for Wii and the instructions for making the adapted items are online. For example, there was a ball cap that used snaps to connect the gamestick to the cap so minimal head movements allowed interaction and gameplaying. Also, there were giant buttons to be pushed to ...
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ratherbflyin on November 17, 2009
  • Re: Text Me, Email Me, FaceBook Me

    You are right about that. I guess I was speaking from my myopic viewpoint of safety &amp; courtesy issues - phone use while driving or while with other people. I come from a large family too that is spread all over the US, so I do agree with what you are saying. In fact, today I nearly had to make an appointment to have my phone surgically ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on November 16, 2009
  • Re: Text Me, Email Me, FaceBook Me

    I'm interested in why we need to be continuously connected every minute of every day! Actually this 'need'' for constant communication is why I spend most of each day in a wheelchair, courtesy of a cell phone user who was so distracted that he did not even see my jeep before plowing into it and breaking my neck and shoulder blade! Personally, ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on November 15, 2009
  • Abilities Expo 2009-2010

    I was fortunate enough to attend the Abilities Expo this weekend in Atlanta. It was wonderful and so packed with information and ideas! Best of all, the Expos are free of charge for anyone wanting to attend. There were families in attendance and individuals also. There are four Abilities Expos planned in 2010 in Los Angeles, New York Metro in
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on November 10, 2009
  • Re: Mental Illness...Here take this assessment!

    Hi, Trish. Thank you for the email. I will respond to it hopefully tomorrow. I just returned from the Abilities Expo in Atlanta, so am pretty exhausted. The expo was amazing. I read your conversation thread tonight, because, you are right, i have not posted for awhile. I've been going through an insomnia relapse and have been trying to work ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on November 10, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    I know. For someone who thought she had become patient, this is quite revealing of my impatience. Thank you for hammering into my thick skull that mind &amp; body will eventually meet in a new &amp; different place. I appreciate your insight.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on October 20, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    I, too, have and do spend time ''out of my mind'' meditating and observing thoughts as they float by. Thoughts just are. Those that are non-productive or negative might be a by-product of a broken, tired, and sore body trying its best to keep up with all of the tasks required for day to day living...activities that were challenging to manage ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on October 13, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Good points, thank you. My heart knows what you are saying is true, however, my mind is not yet giving me a break. I know this will improve over time. I've always been an observer and frequently an outsider, however, I could always do so incognito...not true now.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on October 6, 2009
  • Re: Us vs. Them

    Trish, My youngest daughter turned 20 on your anniversary. A bittersweet day. I was listening to the musical ''Mama Mia'' and heard the song ''Slipping Through My Fingers''. While this song is about watching a child grow up, it also had some messages about unmet expectations. I would never in a million years think that life would take the ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on September 29, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Dan, I read your article with interest. I wonder if the onset timing is later in the South for SAD? Cloudy days have a similar impact for me. Sleep has always been an issue and is a good indicator of a potential valley. We have experienced almost two weeks of rainy, cloudy weather (spinoff of tropical storms), however the last two days have ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on September 29, 2009
  • Re: Us vs. Them

    Trish, I know my thoughts miss the mark sometimes, but here I go again. One thing I learned as my kids were growing up was that sometimes I had to give up my concept of ''the right way'' for something to be done and realize that there are many ways to accomplish the same goal. When I moved to the South, I worked as a neonatal ICU nurse. I was ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on September 22, 2009
  • Re: Us vs. Them

    Trish, My heart goes out to you with this frustrating struggle. I am so sorry that you need surgery in the first place. What would happen to your husband if you became seriously ill and could not be his caregiver even if you wanted to? I know there is no quick answer to this overwhelming situation, however, I wonder if your husband is at a ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on September 15, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Dan, LOL...now, that was funny! So doing dishes it will be! Youโ€™re right about the longing for sameness. Iโ€™ve always preferred to be able to simply blend in, but have yet to find a stealth wheelchair that allows me to do so. I read a book this past year entitled The Same Kind of Different As Me by Ron Hall, Denver Moore, and Lynn Vincent. ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on September 2, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    When I read your post it brought to mind several thoughts. This gentleman voiced what many people know personally, that seemingly invisible disabilities are sometimes more difficult to deal with than the more obvious ones. For example, those suffering with chronic conditions such as asthma, diabetes, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on August 29, 2009
  • Re: What fosters emotional growth and what prevents it

    I sometimes envy people who can get really angry and get their feelings out and be done with them. My reaction to being hurt was similar to Trish's husband. Stuff happens. Perhaps because of a seemingly neverending string of events in my life, this accident was just one more thing. I've only recently begun to process the full impact of the ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on August 29, 2009
  • Re: What fosters emotional growth and what prevents it

    For me, growth is like a rollercoaster ride with peaks and valleys. As I look back, after rising from a valley, I can begin to see how the plummet downward began and what I learned from the ride. Most recently, I was able to observe that forward progress was derailed by early morning downward spirals of negative thoughts about myself and how my
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on August 11, 2009
  • Re: A New Kind of Therapy

    Have you considered donating the chair to Wheels for the World? Following is the URL for Joni and Friends: http://www.joniandfriends.org/wftw_chaircorp.php One of my physical therapists went with this organization to distribute chairs in Africa a couple of years ago.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on August 11, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Blog Entry: http://tetratales.blogspot.com/ Thursday, July 23, 2009 Growth vs. Stress --------------- ''The rung of a ladder was never meant to rest upon, but only to hold a man's foot long enough to enable him to put the other somewhat higher.'' - Thomas Henry Huxley ------------------------------ Post Traumatic Growth (PTG) vs. Post Traumatic ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on July 28, 2009
  • Re: Broken Wheelchair Chargers = Panic Attack

    Trish, Double WOW!!! You are so smart to be able to navigate these steps together. Good for you! Your astute observation about pediatric caregivers is, unfortunately, frequently very true. In defense of peds people (I'm a Pediatric NP), however, I liked kids and babies because I love families and it was an opportunity to work with them. Best
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on July 19, 2009
  • Re: Broken Wheelchair Chargers = Panic Attack

    Hi, Trish! WOW - what a huge step for you guys! Change is scary with no guarantees, however, it is worth the effort. My parents went through some important changes on a much less intense scale. Dad had to retire from a very physical job earlier than expected because of what was thought to be a heart attack (several years later determined to ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on July 17, 2009
  • Cell Phones and SCI

    Curious to know if anyone else in the community was injured because of cell phone use? My SCI was directly related to cell phone use by the guy who hit me. He was speeding and making multiple phone calls just before impact and claimed that he didn't see me, which was supported by the fact that he made no attempt to brake or slow down. I wonder ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on July 5, 2009
  • Re: On the Road with Dr. Gottlieb: Taiwan

    Underneath it all, we are all human with human needs and challenges - none better or worse...they just are what they are. Best wishes on your marriage proposals! Do you have to provide a dowry? My daughter found out from her friend in Nepal that the groom's family there has to give the bride's family her weight in gold before the ceremony. May ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on June 27, 2009
  • Re: On the Road with Dr. Gottlieb: Taiwan

    Trish, Gladwell has turned the great person vs. zeitgeist (historical timeframe) relative to trends, success and failure, greatness vs. obscurity into three books - The Tipping Point, Blink, and Outliers.&nbsp; I just finished reading Outliers and finally, in the last chapter, discovered the personal basis and biases of this particular book.&nbsp;
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on June 4, 2009
  • Re: My Personal Nightmare

    I cannot begin to imagine the depth and breadth of your suffering for such a long period of time.&nbsp; What I do know is that you have found a kind and compassionate&nbsp;community with which you can share your&nbsp;feelings and be heard.&nbsp; As I read your post, I could not help but hear&nbsp;your memories of a wonderful, exciting, tender, ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 27, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Congratulations on your award!&nbsp; What a wonderful acknowledgement of your life's work.&nbsp; Best wishes for your trip.&nbsp; It sounds like you have your arrangements&nbsp;planned well.&nbsp; At any rate, with your life experience, flexibility to meet challenges and unexpected events is a strong suit in favor of thorough enjoyment of the ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 19, 2009
  • Re: SCI steals and robs from all

    Glad to hear it's working and you're working at it.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 14, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Thanks, Trish.&nbsp; I'm treading water a bit trying to find out what is ''normal'' for others in my same situation.&nbsp; Seems like a never ending process and while I have so much to be thankful for, the blessings don't really change the searching.&nbsp; I doubt that there is any norm - that each individual comes to their own definition ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 11, 2009
  • Re: Questions for Dr. Dan - Puzzle Pieces

    Questions for this week for Dr. Dan and others: As I've mentioned before, I have so many questions - new ones everyday - and am looking for answers from anyone with even partially similar circumstance.&nbsp; I'm a 59 year old&nbsp;female quad&nbsp;with&nbsp;C5-7 injury and&nbsp;an additional brachial plexsus injury (seriously limits function of ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 10, 2009
  • Re: Transition from "Rehabing" to Living - Continuing Journey

    Thanks...&nbsp; Getting ready for the drive back home in the morning after a discouraging three days.&nbsp; Have decided to start a comedy blog.&nbsp; &nbsp; Maybe there's a way to reframe life's foibles.&nbsp; If nothing else, it will be a way to express my belief that God has a sense of humor!&nbsp; &nbsp;
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 6, 2009
  • Re: Fed up

    DL, I know this will not make your situation any better, however, I could have written many of your comments over the past three and a half years.&nbsp; You are doing amazingly well for having been out of rehab for such a short time.&nbsp; It is interesting how driving an accessible vehicle differs so much from state to state!!!&nbsp; I will ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ratherbflyin on May 6, 2009
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