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  • Re: Fearful

    This is the short version because I am at work. The anxiety you feel is normal but don't let it consume you. This is one of those things that will bury you if you let it. It is hard to go out at times in the beginning because you are in a different body. Sometimes even now over 3 years later I still feel uneasy at the stares or the feelings I get ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on April 14, 2009
  • Re: talking to children

    I remember one book called Nice Wheels that was an early reader about wheelchairs. there are several more that may be helpful. I am at a loss about their titles right now. Your library should have a selection even if it is small. There is a library here that you can search but I don't know how long it would take the books to reach you.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on April 14, 2009
  • Haiku

    I miss you. I was just thinking about you.
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on February 20, 2009
  • Re: Email from school principal

    LOL My son's teacher last year and this year sent home progress reports with words spelled incorrectly. Handwritten so not a typo. I circled them in red like she does on his papers signed it and sent it back. I hate these standardized tests. Our school system gets all freaked out about it also. I feel if they cared that much all year all the kids
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on February 18, 2009
  • Re: Team Reeve Boston Marathon Beginning Week 7 of training

    I am checking into information on Team Reeve. Did you do your fundraising&nbsp;site or did soemone here help you? My brother has run in two marathons in the past. He is considering the Chicago marathon but we are clueless with the fundraising. forgive me if this info is on this site soemwhere already I haven't had time to get too deep into this yet
    Posted to 26.2 (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 30, 2009
  • Re: Im a newbe with this paraplegic stuff...

    It will get better. It will never get easy. At least it hasn't for me. I've been sitting here for a bit over 3 years. The adjustment period is so hard but it definitely gets better. What in particular are you struggling with and maybe we can help with tips on how to do things, etc. If it's the emotional part sometimes typing it out helps.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 30, 2009
  • Re: dating

    Maybe you should date your hubby and give us intertesting stories. Here's one :&nbsp;I tried the dating site thing. I always felt weird about those things and never thought I'd get on one. I was afraid I'd find some weirdo or&nbsp;someone would kidnap me or something. Anyway I talked on the phone with what seemed to be an interesting guy from ...
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 21, 2009
  • Re: Finding a psychologist

    I will mention this to the therapist. It is a good suggestion. Thank goodness&nbsp;I found someone. I was taking my daughter on Friday. We had a break in at my house on Monday which has seriously traumatized me. I talked to the counselors and we are going to have a family session on Friday instead to talk about this together. At times I wonder what
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 21, 2009
  • Re: dating

    sjean423:There are some cute ones here .....They may be cute but apparently none of them are dating.
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 17, 2009
  • Re: dating

    oh nevermind I'm a little slow sometimes I see the smileys
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 16, 2009
  • Re: dating

    Where do you get those smileys? I had boring old chicken.
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 16, 2009
  • Re: Guidelines for Protecting Your Shoulders, Elbows and Wrists!

    Yes I need to read this. My shoulders hurt and I'm only 3 years in. I've always had wrist weakness.
    Posted to Rehab (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 16, 2009
  • Re: Great News---PARALYSIS ACT SEES IMMEDIATE ACTION BY NEW CONGRESS

    I was so glad to hear this!
    Posted to Advocacy (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 16, 2009
  • Re: Made it through the holidays

    All I can say is hold on for Spring. I get in the winter slump and I can drive. How old are your sons? My son is good about playing uno or something like that with me. It breaks up the monotony and we do something besides watch tv. He is 8. My daughter who is 11 keeps thinking she is too old and cool for that and would rather listen to music in her
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 16, 2009
  • Re: It's the End of the World

    The above post was nice. It seems you always know what to say and how to say it. I have tried to look up the date but I can't find any information about it. When I was in high school&nbsp;there was a prediction of an earthquake to occur on the New Madrid Fault. it was supposed to be worse than the one in 1811 that made the MS flow backwards. I ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 15, 2009
  • Re: Recent Movies You've Watched

    Haiku I am glad you had a decent experience. I was actually nervous for you. I would say something to the theater. Especially if you used to be a customer. They may have never thought about it. &nbsp;
    Posted to Sports/Recreation/Travel/Hobbies (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 15, 2009
  • Re: Recent Movies You've Watched

    Very cool graphics Sjean. It is much steeper than that though!! So we went to see the movie Bedtime Stories. I made the difficult transfer into the seat. My son wanted to sit in my chair so I would be in the middle. I'm not sure if I was flattered or annoyed they had to fight over who sat by me so I had to transfer. Anyway my rt brake hardly ever ...
    Posted to Sports/Recreation/Travel/Hobbies (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 15, 2009
  • Re: Finding a psychologist

    Thank you for the feedback. In my town there are only two therapists. One I saw for marital counseling who I never want to see again. One my daughter saw briefly when I first came out of the hospital. She was uncooperative with me. Nearest city over I called every one of them on the list. 16 people. Nothing. One only saw people from 6 - 8PM and had
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 15, 2009
  • Re: Recent Movies You've Watched

    Haiku I am so glad you went to the theater. I know that was a big step. Our town is so small we get one movie at a time. You never know what it's going to be. One time we got the Grinch Stole Christmas in late January. It's only 3 dollars to get in though.&nbsp;The bathroom is upstairs and it still has a balcony. There is no flat viewing area ...
    Posted to Sports/Recreation/Travel/Hobbies (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 10, 2009
  • Re: dating

    OK I'll start then geez. I went to dinner last night with a guy. He was freaking 6'4'' I thought my neck would snap off trying to look up at him when we were walking. I was only 5'2'' standing. No amusing stories though.
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 9, 2009
  • Re: Finding a psychologist

    they were in the historic district........... which is like the entire area here. I don't mind advocating for accessiblilty&nbsp;or educating people but when I've just spent 20 minutes telling someone I was in a car accident that left me paralyzed I don't feel like educating them that yes I will be in a wheelchair when I arrive.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 8, 2009
  • Re: Finding a psychologist

    Well so far I am batting zero. I have called about 8 people. 3 had full mailboxes. I'm not sure if that is a good or bad sign. Some didn't feel right. 2 worked out of home and&nbsp;thought&nbsp;I couldn't get in.&nbsp;The last one I called I told him the issues, that I was paralyzed in a car wreck and we had a divorce. He seemed okay. I made an ...
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 8, 2009
  • Re: Gardening

    Oh I miss my big garden. I used to have a garden big enough to supply a truck farmer here. Maybe I can find a picture later. Since the accidnet&nbsp;no such luck. I tried but my self propelled tiller wasn't self propelling enough to pull my chair too lol. Then I sunk in the soft dirt, then the weeds took over. Then&nbsp;I lived in an apartment ...
    Posted to Sports/Recreation/Travel/Hobbies (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on January 8, 2009
  • Re: Posting Pictures

    I didn't know cc had that. I am stupid about stuff like that also.&nbsp;I always just opened paint and clicked on stretch or skew and made it smaller.
    Posted to Forum Support and Information (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 19, 2008
  • Re: Forum is hard to find

    Yes that is the library. I suppose I am lazy.&nbsp;I wanted to type library in the search engine&nbsp;and it take me to the library. I didn't want to read all of that last night to figure out where it is. I love that it mails you books though. There is a lot of information here and&nbsp;I love this site.&nbsp;I wish I had known about it in rehab. ...
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 18, 2008
  • Re: Forum is hard to find

    See now&nbsp;I can't even find that library.&nbsp;I don't think the search function works here at all.
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 17, 2008
  • Re: Forum is hard to find

    Maybe put community forum somewhere instead of just community. Or a little something in that lower corner with the excerpts that invites you to ask questions or participate. I was most concerned when I searched the site for forum and it brought it up but wouldn't link me to it. This site has a wealth of information but most of it seems buried. I ...
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 17, 2008
  • Re: dating

    I suppose no one is dating. Why don't you start?
    Posted to Life (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 17, 2008
  • Re: Finding a psychologist

    I finally talked to my EAP. I was impressed with how helpful they were. They are sending a list of people. One list for me and one list for her.&nbsp;I will probably enroll my son also. I am entitled to 8 free sessions for each of us. Now for the hard part. Finding the right one.
    Posted to On Healing (Forum) by ifonlysandwhatifs on December 17, 2008
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