Dear Dr Dan,
I agree that living with adversity changes the way we look at life. It changes everything..some of us will become bitter and some of us will become better.
The question is ...who, will we become?
Who, will I become? I ask myself.
I am not sure I would agree this physical life is heaven. I don't think it is heaven or hell. I think it is a journey which will make us or brake us. It is the prelude of what can be. And I wonder why some need to suffer more than others? Is this a random thing? Or is there a purpose? I wonder!
I guess for the here and now, the question is not that important. All it matters is that we enjoy the moment. The love, the life we are given.
But, I can not help wondering why some must be so deprived? Why some have it so easy?
Just a question..that is all..
My best Ivonne
Dear Dr Dan and all!!
I always searched for more than today. However, after my husbands' paralyzes and now in the present. I realize I need only to crasp the here and now, tomorrow is always unknown...but, can I say... I always had a vision. Never this one however..
I will try my best not to let myself become depressed. For me this means to change many things as I view life. But, one thing I can say. I will not give up...Never..
I recently found "chronicles of a care giver" within the Christopher Reeve site. I have found there are support groups for care givers and I am going to reach them all and see what I can find. I am looking for answers to very deep questions...
I need to come to turn with this situation. I need to be ok in the morning and every morning, every day....
for my husband's sake, for our daughters sake and yes!
For my sake....
I hope I hear from you, I am not where I need to be yet and I am hoping others are willing to point out some things to me ....
Like I said before in past postings. I am searching....
but, I am also willing to listen to others. Perhaps we can all help one another.
Blessings to you and all..Ivonne
I love your quotes.. I did not know, Naomi Ramen.. now I do. Thank to you.!
I like this one ..
" It is the wisdom gained from our wounds and from our experiences of suffering that makes us able to heal".
Hope you are feeling better..
Hello Dr Dan,
I will be happy to participate!! But, my questions are too many and too deep. If you post your questions however, I will answer. Regards, Ivonne