Although my husband's new career has interferred with our recreation over the past few years, we always enjoy fishing, camping, and boating. We used to ski until hubby injured himself. Skiing was a blast for us. I never had more fun in my life than we I used to ski with hubby. We always enjoy festivals and events too.
We also like to take walks and ride bikes. Our favorite thing to do is bike into downtown on an early Saturday or Sunday morning when everyone else is asleep. Downtown is about 10 miles away. It's so refeshing to ride along the river into town. And it's super cool to ride bikes among the skyscrapers when town is empty. It's like a movie scene where we're the last people on earth.
This summer, I'm taking golf lessons because hubby wants to start golfing with me. It was alway a hobby he did on his own, and I respected that. But I was very flattered when he shared that he was hoping I'd take some golf lessons so we could start golfing together this year. I can't say that I'm all hot and excited about the prospect of golfing, but I do know that I enjoy my husband's company and anything I do with him is fun.
On a daily basis, we just enjoy grabbing whatever moments we can sitting outside together and just talking and laughing. Since we only get to see each other for an hour each day, we have a rule that we won't discuss anything negative. This has turned out to be a great thing too! Because problems are posponed to be discussed at a specified time (usually a weekend morning), we are very matter-of-fact in our discussions about problems. We both think that it's more important to focus on positive things since our time together is limited.
vita non est vivere sed valere vita est
amor vincit omnia
