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Last post 06-27-2008, 6:14 AM by pyhiG. 33 replies.
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  •  06-24-2008, 8:58 PM 10963 in reply to 10754

    Re: Parking Incedent

    pyhiG:

    To me that is just an imature way to handle things. 

     

    How would you handle it?

    For one, two wrongs don`t make it right. I would have just tried to be a good example and remove the cart and use it, (if I needed it) or put it somewhere, where it wouldn`t be in the way of another car. The person who put the cart behind 'that' other person`s car just did what they wouldn`t want done to them. (that is hypercritical)  "let revenge be mine" God says. (not exact words, but you know).  More times than not, our examples are more powerful than what we say. What we do is more 'caught' than what we say. 
    Life is not a problem to be solved, but a gift to be enjoyed
  •  06-24-2008, 9:20 PM 10965 in reply to 10963

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     "let revenge be mine" God says.

     

    Was the owner of the car who was not present at that time when someone put a cart behind this vehicle have been vindicated by what happened to this person?


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-24-2008, 9:33 PM 10966 in reply to 10965

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    pyhiG:

     "let revenge be mine" God says.

     

    Was the owner of the car who was not present at that time when someone put a cart behind this vehicle have been vindicated by what happened to this person?

    I think it`s vindictive. I don`t know why else someone would 'purposely' place a cart behind someone else`s car, unless the wind blew it there or something.   Also, if the owner wasn`t present, then how is he to know which car to put the cart behind if he wasn`t there to see who did it?   
    Life is not a problem to be solved, but a gift to be enjoyed
  •  06-24-2008, 10:45 PM 10973 in reply to 10966

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    Okay I can't resist any longer!!!

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    Sounds like instant "car"ma to me!!!


    "No honey, those shoes are too small."
  •  06-24-2008, 10:53 PM 10974 in reply to 10966

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    "I think it`s vindictive"

     

    The owner of the car that was parked beside her vehicle was not present and unaware of what happened, but the couple who witnessed what she did to the shopping cart removed it and they then placed it behind her car; which caused a scratched on her own vehicle rather than someone else.

     

    "let revenge be mine" God says."

     

    Is it true for this incedent?


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-24-2008, 10:57 PM 10975 in reply to 10974

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    Sounds like instant "car"ma to me!!!

     

    Or

    is it...

    more like you plant evil deeds and your harvest will be evil.

     

    You reap what you sow?


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-25-2008, 7:16 AM 10998 in reply to 10919

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    pyhiG:

    " IMO they were intentionally mean. One bad deed does not deserve another. "

     

    What will you do and what would you say to the couple?

     

    I personally would most likely have tried to keep the woman from hitting the cart. If I were close enough and could get it out of the way before she backed out, I would have simply moved it and never said a word. It is not my place to say anything to either one of the parties involved.

    The Bible says that we will be know by our love one to another. (John 13:35) Ever heard the old addage 'actions speak louder than words' ?  What about 'they talk the talk, but do they walk the walk'? Both seem to apply to this situation.

  •  06-25-2008, 8:53 AM 11027 in reply to 10998

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    (John 13:35) Ever heard the old addage 'actions speak louder than words' ?  What about 'they talk the talk, but do they walk the walk'

     

    Yes, " Walk the walk/talk the talk, but the problem with walking is when you keep on walking and start stepping on other toes and hurt them.  :)  People do not care how much you say, unless you prove/show how much you really care. 

     

    Yes, it is a good example to remove the cart out of the way and think about the safety of yourself/others first around you. 

     

    The reason I asked, what you would do/say to the couple when they were ahead of you and already have the cart on their hands, before you even get the chance to walk fast enough to move the cart out of the way.   Are you going to keep silent and let the couple, happily walk away?


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-25-2008, 9:04 AM 11032 in reply to 11027

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    The reason I asked, what you would do/say to the couple when they were ahead of you and already have the cart on their hands, before you even get the chance to walk fast enough to move the cart out of the way.   Are you going to keep silent and let the couple, happily walk away?


    IRL, I would not approach anyone and try to remonstrate with them.  This is a town where people do pull guns and are violent towards each other so, if I saw this scenario for real, I would not do anything - unless I needed to call the cops.

    However, in a perfect world, where I wasn't afraid of getting shot/attacked, I would say to that couple that their behavior was not appropriate.  I would say that if they wanted to deal appropriately with the incident, they could have pulled the cart to one side so that no-one was injured and no vehicle was damaged - and in fact they have a responsibility to their fellow human being, as they had seen that there was a chance to some injury/damage would have taken place.  But that it was not their place to be judge and jury for the person who left the cart there because, after all, we all make slips in our lives, and would they want a stranger to be their judge and jury when they made a slip.  I would tell them that their part in the whole situation began and ended in moving the cart out of the firing line.  Period. 


    For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself (Gal 5:14)
  •  06-25-2008, 10:47 AM 11081 in reply to 11027

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    The reason I asked, what you would do/say to the couple when they were ahead of you and already have the cart on their hands, before you even get the chance to walk fast enough to move the cart out of the way.   Are you going to keep silent and let the couple, happily walk away?

     

    I am not sure what else I could do. Like I said before, if I as close enough to prevent the woman from hitting the cart, then I would, but I dont think it is my place to correct perfect strangers on the street. There are just some things that we can and should step into, and some that are better left alone. Guess it all depends on the exact circumstances involved.  

  •  06-25-2008, 1:52 PM 11146 in reply to 11081

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    but I dont think it is my place to correct perfect strangers on the street

    It is not a matter of correcting (perfect) strangers on the street, but more on being a good samaritan.

    Thanks for posting.

     

     


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-26-2008, 4:20 PM 11353 in reply to 10975

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    pyhiG:

    Sounds like instant "car"ma to me!!!

     

    Or

    is it...

    more like you plant evil deeds and your harvest will be evil.

     

    You reap what you sow?

    Ah say, Ah say, these are the jokes son...
    "No honey, those shoes are too small."
  •  06-26-2008, 4:35 PM 11356 in reply to 11353

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    I've thought about this and as I see it there are a couple of things.

    One is that we are talking about presumably nonchristians. We can't hold the world to our standard of behavior, so it is pointless to judge this couple for what they did.

    Second what would we do in that place, you obviously couldn't move the cart before the lady backed into it, but for the sake of "what would you do" lets say we were close enough to actually do something. I think the simplest thing to do would have been to grab the cart, put your purse in the seat and go on into the store with your cart already in your hand. I often do just that.

    Thirdly, the person who's car the cart was behind would have seen it when they came out to get in thier car and moved it, so that couple caused damage that would not have been caused if they had left it alone. This is what often happens when we decide to"fix" things. Kinda the reason God says "Vengance is mine." don't ya think?

    If I was in your shoes I probably would have had my kids with me and I would have used that as a lesson in what I said above, if after we were in the store the couple over heard the discussion and it made them think, that is in God's hands, mean while it is a real life example of not taking justice into your own hands when you can't see all the angles and it isn't your job.


    "No honey, those shoes are too small."
  •  06-26-2008, 6:36 PM 11362 in reply to 11356

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    "Vengance is mine." don't ya think?

    No, it was not mine, yours, neither the others, but only to the righteous judge who sees all things past/present/future.  The judging only belongs to the one faithful/righteous judge who sees no partiality.

    Ah say, Ah say, these are the jokes son...

    I agree, Tha instant "car" ma to me are the jokes son...but what you sow is what you reap comes from the word of God, teaching all His (legitimate) children to sow good seeds. 

     

     


    John14:17 That helper is the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept him, because it doesn't see or know him. You know him, because he lives with you and will be in you.
    Psalm 34:1
  •  06-26-2008, 7:16 PM 11373 in reply to 11362

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    "Vengance is mine." don't ya think?

    No, it was not mine, yours, neither the others, but only to the righteous judge who sees all things past/present/future.  The judging only belongs to the one faithful/righteous judge who sees no partiality

    "Vengance is mine. says the Lord" It is a verse in the bible. I was quoting it. I was NOT saying that I had the right to vengance. My whole point was exactly your last sentance in the above quote, we get into trouble when we try to put our judgement into action. I thought I was clear, I guess I wasn't. You quoted me wrong I said "God says "Vengance is mine." then I added the "don't ya think" as in wouldn't you agree? I only put the quote marks around the part that was a biblical quote because I moved the part about "God says" or more correctly "Says the Lord". Clear as mud??

     

    Ah say, Ah say, these are the jokes son...

    I agree, Tha instant "car" ma to me are the jokes son...but what you sow is what you reap comes from the word of God, teaching all His (legitimate) children to sow good seeds. 

     *SIGH* I was making a joke. I'm sorry I made a joke on your thread. I'm sorry it was not strictly biblical. Which is why I gave you a real answer.


    "No honey, those shoes are too small."
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