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  • Re: Help! 9 year old daughter panics when it is bed time

    Scott, &nbsp; I actually went through&nbsp;something&nbsp;similar this past winter.&nbsp; I had&nbsp;a really bad reaction to a anti-inflammatory med my doctor prescribed.&nbsp;&nbsp;One of the reactions was a panic attack.&nbsp; I had it at night, which caused me&nbsp;to not&nbsp;sleep.&nbsp;&nbsp;Fear just sort&nbsp;of set in and I started a ...
    Posted to Parenting Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 3, 2009
  • Re: Organic Food

    Organic food gets a raw deal from the FSA The FSA ignored pesticides, the main health issue, in its report on organic food, says Geoffrey Lean. &nbsp; By Geoffrey Lean Published: 5:49PM BST 31 Jul 2009 Comments 46 | Comment on this article What's with the Food Standards Agency and organic food? It just can't leave it alone. Not, of
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 1, 2009
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: Since you both claim this is all about protecting American children, let's revisit a previous post of mine: SeekingHisPeace:Statistically, your fears are unfounded.&nbsp; Our society is the most prudish of most western cultures, yet we have the highest teen pregnancy rate AND the highest abortion rate.&nbsp; It's important to ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 26, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pyhiG: I'm not deciding for other parents.&nbsp; You are correct in saying that and I agreed.&nbsp; However,&nbsp;you can decide for yourself as a parent wether you want to support the store or not.&nbsp; My point was that parents can make a decision for their own children&nbsp;without forcing their decison on ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 25, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    Grand Illusion:For some reason, my second-to-last post only shows the first line.&nbsp; What I was saying is that from what I've seen, nothing sold there actually depicts sex acts. It's all partially-clad people 70's PG movie-style that doesn't show any private parts, and the toys don't describe how to use them.&nbsp; I don't think any of these ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 24, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    Whoa, the word that's being blocked is pre-teen, but without the hyphen.&nbsp; Strange.&nbsp; I had no idea that was a no-no for the message boards.&nbsp; &nbsp;
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    I must have done a typo because the word '***' has shown up with little stars in my above post.&nbsp; So the word with little stars is supposed to be ***.
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage: SeekingHisPeace: I guess you don't understand the concept of&nbsp;screaming fire in a crowded theater when there is no fire.&nbsp; I understand perfectly the concept of screaming fire in crowded theather when there is no fire.&nbsp; However, I truly believe (and obviously&nbsp;others do too) that Spencers ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage: SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage:It's a shame that you're defending this. It's&nbsp;a shame when people get all fearful over a newspaper article,&nbsp;jump to conclusions, and set out to destroy the livihood of retail employees by trying to start&nbsp;boycotts of entire&nbsp;malls.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This story is
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage:It's a shame that you're defending this. It's&nbsp;a shame when people get all fearful over a newspaper article,&nbsp;jump to conclusions, and set out to destroy the livihood of retail employees by trying to start&nbsp;boycotts of entire&nbsp;malls.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; This story is OUTDATED.&nbsp; You posted ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: Firstly, I am&nbsp;SHOCKED that you would post links to sexually explicit material&nbsp;on Family Life forums. Secondly, you have no way of knowing for certain that those things are accessible by children unless you visit the store yourself.&nbsp; http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/video?id=5984358 It's a shame that you're ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage:Does it not even concern you what kids are being exposed to at this store?&nbsp; Not really.&nbsp; I went to the website and checked out the merchandize.&nbsp; There is no PORN.&nbsp; Playboy bunny ears on purses and t-shirts doesn't qualify as&nbsp;porn.&nbsp; Posters of skimpily clad women doesn't qualify as ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    SeekingHisPeace: pelerinage:I have no doubt that their are some parent out there that have no clue about Spencer's, just like I had no clue.&nbsp; That's why I posted this.&nbsp; To let&nbsp;parents&nbsp;know.&nbsp; What do you want them to do with the information?&nbsp; Seriously.&nbsp; Does a parent now keep their teenager from going to the ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Re: Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    This does happen to be a new discovery for me, as DIC is shocked about.&nbsp; It was&nbsp;a new discovery for&nbsp;my friend too, who happened to tell me about it.&nbsp; I find it&nbsp;disturbing that the fact that some parents are unaware of what is inside this store is somehow the focus instead of the fact that Spencer's Gifts is selling sexually
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 23, 2008
  • Parents Beware Porn @ your local mall

    I've always seen Spencer's Gifts at the mall, but never went in.&nbsp; It just looked like a silly&nbsp;cheesy store to me.&nbsp; However, I had no clue as to what they sold.&nbsp; A friend of mine just informed me of just how offensive and vulgar&nbsp;this store is.&nbsp; They're selling pornographic material.&nbsp; Anyone can go into this ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on December 21, 2008
  • Re: So, my two homosexual friends invited me to their wedding...

    Tubalcain: bestofky: Tubalcain: PearsandGrapes: Tubalcain:I wasn't referring to the one who started this thread.&nbsp; I was referring to those who villianize family members out of some misguided religious fervor. I know exactly to whom you were referring.&nbsp; The man posted and was foolishly vulnerable about the pain his family is in...he ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on November 4, 2008
  • Re: Halloween

    We're taking our kids trick-or-treating in our neighborhood (they're both dressing up as court jesters).&nbsp; After the trick-or-treating, we'll just hand out candy.&nbsp;
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on October 31, 2008
  • Re: Worth READING--and THINKING ABOUT

    bestofky: My husband received the following in an e-mail today from a friend.&nbsp; I found it VERY ''thought-provoking''. &nbsp; Revelation 13:5&nbsp;(NIV) &nbsp;5The beast was given a mouth to utter proud words and blasphemies and to exercise his authority for forty-two months. How long is the beast allowed to have authority in ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on October 30, 2008
  • Re: How can a Christian cast a vote for a candidate whose stance on the most important moral issues is anti-God?

    StillHopeful123: Regardless of what we think about Obama's presidency supposedly benefiting people financially,&nbsp;should not the issues that are more important to God, like Sanctity of Human Life and Marriage, be the decisive factors when we elect the next leader of our country? Wouldn't, then, casting your vote for Obama go against the core ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on October 17, 2008
  • Invisible Moms

    I came across this and thought that I would share it with all of you moms on the forum.&nbsp; :)&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, thewayone of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to betaken to the store.Inside I'm thinking, 'Can't you see I'm on the ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on October 17, 2008
  • Re: Ray Boltz...a sad situation...

    Tubalcain: PearsandGrapes: Tubalcain: We are not competent to judge Mr. Boltz' ''being right with God'' or not. &nbsp; Never said we were...but, it is interesting you would say this since&nbsp;you were the one telling us that he Tubalcain:&nbsp; is in a far better place spirtually than those cruelly judging him, but I suspect the Brother ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on October 11, 2008
  • Re: Halloween

    pooh girl: PearsandGrapes:Jane and Pooh.&nbsp; I HATE those masks too. :(&nbsp; I just tell my little girls to look across the isle at the other stuff...and actually, all Wal-mart seemed to have this year was creepy dark looking things, so we&nbsp;wont spend much time in&nbsp;the Halloween isles this year.&nbsp; We have enough cutesy things ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on September 19, 2008
  • Re: Halloween

    PearsandGrapes: pelerinage: The neighborhood that we&nbsp;live in is holiday crazy . . . and Halloween is no exception.&nbsp;&nbsp;For Halloween, the&nbsp;people in our neighborhood go all out.&nbsp;&nbsp;On top of decorations and handing out candy, the vast majority of&nbsp;people have hot cocoa/hot apple cider stations set up, some ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on September 19, 2008
  • Re: Halloween

    Just like another poster, my family and I&nbsp;really like the fall/winter holidays.&nbsp; My children really enjoy Halloween and plan WELL in advance what costumes they want to wear.&nbsp;&nbsp;They go trick-or-treating and I also hand out candy.&nbsp;&nbsp;The neighborhood that we&nbsp;live in is holiday crazy . . . and Halloween is no ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on September 18, 2008
  • Re: lgbt

    Tubalcain: pro31:26: if you call yourself a christian n act in that manner, i'd question your relationship w/ jesus christ our lord. Enough of Christians do it to LGBTs either as individuals or as a group, so obviouly some feel it is appropriate and ''Christian''. answer me honestly, would you teach your children anti-homophobia education n ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on September 15, 2008
  • Re: How do you prefer

    divorce in church:I keep seeing over and over how bad this place is...how it will chase away Christians etc. How if someone saw it they wouldnt like Christianity, or they would move alongWhat do YOU thinkt the forum should look like? No disagreemtsOnly prayer requestsOnly advice questionswhat exactly is the right stuff I think that PearsandGrapes
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on September 4, 2008
  • Re: How did you know homeschooling was right for your famlily?

    92:I guess I am confused as to the purpose of homeschooling..... In my opinion, the main purpose of homeschooling is the same as the purpose of a child attending a public, private or charter school.&nbsp;&nbsp;The purpose&nbsp;is to receive an&nbsp;education.&nbsp; Homeschooling is just another&nbsp;form of educating your children.&nbsp; ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 19, 2008
  • Re: How did you know homeschooling was right for your famlily?

    cfhowell: Hi, y'all!&nbsp; Long time, no see! I've had this homeschooling idea swirling around in my head for some time now.&nbsp; I don't want to say that lightly; I'm aware that it is a FULL-time job and then some to school kids at home and do it well in addition to being the wife and homemaker God called me to be.&nbsp; I wouldn't naturally ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 19, 2008
  • Re: TV FAST?

    pooh girl: Has anyone done a TV fast before for a period of time? How was it? My sister and her family did it for a little over a year.&nbsp; It was my sister's idea (she's&nbsp;never been&nbsp;big on watching tv).&nbsp; Their tv broke and instead of buying a new one she asked her family to give up tv permanently and they reluctantly ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 15, 2008
  • The Hormone Guide

    This gave me a good chuckle so I thought that I would share.&nbsp; Though my ''Ultra Safe'' would unfortunately be Little Debbie's Oatmeal Cream Pies.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; The Hormone Guide Women will understand this! Men should memorize it! Every woman knows that there are days in the month when all a man has to do is open his mouth ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 11, 2008
  • Re: Things You Don't Say to Your Wife

    Tim Hawkins cracks me up!&nbsp; He's so funny&nbsp; :) I like his 2 music videos Cletus Take the Reel and A Homeschool Family. You can watch more of his stuff on Youtube or&nbsp;Godtube&nbsp;or just go to his website. http://www.timhawkins.net/index.php
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 9, 2008
  • Re: Suing over loss of faith

    pyhiG: My season of&nbsp;doubt had nothing to do with pride but it was&nbsp;ignited&nbsp;by fear and sorrow.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I wonder if your fear/sorrow was ignited by pride?&nbsp;&nbsp;A person&nbsp;can be&nbsp;afraid of failures because of pride. What do you think? I did a lot of ''soul searching'' during my time of doubt, ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 8, 2008
  • Re: Suing over loss of faith

    pyhiG: &nbsp; How many people doubted *God* when the Bakkers fell?&nbsp; How many people doubted God when Jimmy Swaggert admitted his sexual history?&nbsp; How many people doubt GOD when some pastor or church leader at their local church stumbles or, in their opinion, is unChrist-like? Pride leads to doubting God Humility leads to faithfulness
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 8, 2008
  • Re: Suing over loss of faith

    ''If you're talking about True Faith in God...&nbsp; I don't believe ANY situation or circumstances should cause my Faith to be shaken or lost.&nbsp; If I'm focused on God, trust him, believe He 'has' me, then my Faith should endure through anything life brings.'' I just wanted to share a bit on this.&nbsp; Though you may believe that no ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 8, 2008
  • Re: Beer

    Libra28: I've noticed my husband needing beer more and more lately.&nbsp; I'm not sure what is too much really.&nbsp; He's gets a 12 pack like once a week or so.&nbsp; I know there are days he doesn't even have one.&nbsp; But then there are others when he has to have two or three.&nbsp; Like this afternoon he had 3 beers while we were sitting out
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 6, 2008
  • Re: Home Schooling: Starting the research

    Hi Patrick, &nbsp; My husband and I also made the decision to homeschool our 2 kids.&nbsp; This will be my 5th year homeschooling them (daughter 5th grade and son 3rd grade).&nbsp;&nbsp;Just like your wife, I&nbsp;had my&nbsp;reservations and was afraid that I wasn't capable of teaching our kids.&nbsp; In my heart, I really did&nbsp;desire to ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 6, 2008
  • Re: 10 Ways to Prevent Divorce

    divorce in church:Let me make one observation and please read me very carefully. This is not to start an argument. I think there needs to be some mention of sex in the top 10, as a main, listed point. Since men and women place high value on it as part of the relationship there must be some way for it to be included as a top ''way to stay ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on August 5, 2008
  • Re: What Would Push You to Hit?

    pooh girl: I was watching a movie yesterday afternoon and the woman hit her ex husband.&nbsp; I mean she really hit him across the face.&nbsp;&nbsp; The man was by the lowest of standards mean and cruel. Early on in the movie he actually dragged&nbsp;his wife across the floor and threw her out of the door slamming it shut.&nbsp; All this as he ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 28, 2008
  • Re: Books

    Typo!&nbsp; I listed Eric Wilson twice.&nbsp; Sorry!&nbsp;&nbsp; :)
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 21, 2008
  • Re: Books

    mercy4all:Anyone reading anything good right now, or have a great recommendation?&nbsp; I love, love, love to read.&nbsp; I pretty much stick with christian books, both fiction and non-fiction.&nbsp; Would love to hear from you all as well.&nbsp; What's your favorites?&nbsp; What are you currently reading? I absolutely love reading too!&nbsp; I ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 21, 2008
  • Re: Equal responsiblity?

    chaz345: pelerinage: There is something that I'm having a hard time understanding when it comes to divorce. For those that believe that the act of divorce (filing the paperwork) is a sin,&nbsp;I don't understand how to reconcile&nbsp;couple of things.&nbsp; First, Jeremiah 3:8 says that God divorced Isreal.&nbsp;&nbsp;God does not sin, ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 15, 2008
  • Re: Equal responsiblity?

    There is something that I'm having a hard time understanding when it comes to divorce. For those that believe that the act of divorce (filing the paperwork) is a sin,&nbsp;I don't understand how to reconcile&nbsp;couple of things.&nbsp; First, Jeremiah 3:8 says that God divorced Isreal.&nbsp;&nbsp;God does not sin, so&nbsp;how&nbsp;could&nbsp;He ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 15, 2008
  • Re: Equal responsiblity?

    divorce in church:&nbsp; Sadly, humans respond to stimuli, negative and positive. How does the church deal with other sin? We attempt to rid lives of the sin. We dont take the alcoholic and offer seminars to the people who dont drink to teach them not to drink or to drink responsibly. We say alcoholism and drunkenness is sin, and we will ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 15, 2008
  • Re: Equal responsiblity?

    ChaiLatte3: I wish there was a third choice, being- Who Cares? Maybe it's just me, but I so do NOT get this debate.&nbsp; Even if there was a way to know who is more responsible (which there is not), what would it matter or prove?&nbsp; The only thing each of us can do is work on our own marriages.&nbsp; Male or female, we all come with some ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 14, 2008
  • Re: Can you tell if the house is haunted?

    I don't believe in ghosts&nbsp;(the spirits of dead people)&nbsp;''haunting'' houses.&nbsp; But I definitely believe that demons ''haunt''&nbsp;houses.&nbsp; Back in 1993, my husband and I lived in an old apartment building (built 1930's).&nbsp; Very, very scary, weird and unexplained things happened during our time living there.&nbsp; The ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by pelerinage on July 11, 2008
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