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  • Re: Refreshing others, Refreshing self

    ''Do not be afraid nor dismayed because of this great multitude, for the battle is not yours but God`s''.&nbsp; 2 Chron. 2 ''Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your path. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and depart from evil. It will ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 19, 2009
  • Re: Refreshing others, Refreshing self

    &nbsp; ''I will instruct you in the way you should go, I will guide you with my eye''&nbsp;&nbsp; Psalm 32:8&nbsp; ''By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well advised comes nothing but wisdom.''&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Proverbs 13:10 ''A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger''&nbsp; Proverbs 15:1 ''Now to Him who ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 19, 2009
  • Re: Refreshing others, Refreshing self

    Another one that really encouraged me through dumpy times was this verse: '' The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Pslam 34: 17-18
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 19, 2009
  • Re: Refreshing others, Refreshing self

    Hot Ice: What are some scriptural things you've heard--direct quotes fro the Word, or words that were totally based on&nbsp;scripture--you've herad from others when you were in the middle of a trial, that really refreshed you? &nbsp; I have more than one scripture that has been encouraging to me with or without trials. Here`s ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 19, 2009
  • Re: Pornography... what do I do now, Part II...

    Holecek Family: neveah7x7, My heart goes out to you. I understand how damaging this can be to you and your marriage. In your previous blog you said you felt like your husband had cheated on you. I wanted to share a scripture with you. Jesus said, ''You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 10, 2009
  • Re: KING OF POP

    Originally posted by Gabby: Were those his brothers who were carrying the casket? A fine looking group of men... Yep...they were.
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 8, 2009
  • Re: KING OF POP

    Originally posted by Holten: I do believe he was a tortured soul and I think his personal life is very sad.&nbsp; Given his life as a celebrity from an early age, it could easily be argued that he never stood a chance of being emotionally ''normal''.&nbsp; From all accounts, his mother was his sole source of security, comfort and normalcy. ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 8, 2009
  • Re: KING OF POP

    Leeza10: DEAR ALL, &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; mike jackson was the BEST,, THE BEST.&nbsp; did you see the way he woud grease up the floor on the dance stage? i meen relly he can move like a stick&nbsp;a butter across the stage. i relly miss him.&nbsp; i hope he is now with the king of kings in ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 8, 2009
  • Re: Misconceptions on prayer

    BcauseHeLives: Nadine you are an amazing encourager!&nbsp; I just wanted you to know I appreciate you &amp; your sweet encouragement. Death is so hard.&nbsp; Remember I said when I was little I thought prayers were answered as I saw fit?&nbsp; Well the death of my earthly Dad is what shook my faith &amp; ultimately lead me back to it w/an even ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 8, 2009
  • Re: Misconceptions on prayer

    pooh girl: Nadine30: pooh girl: Nadine30: How much should someone pray anyways?&nbsp; I know it should be from your heart. Pray without ceasing ideally. I think something like pray continually throughout your day. Not some big ritual, but prayerful thoughts as you work, clean, go to school, drive or shop etc. When others and things come to mind ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 7, 2009
  • Re: Misconceptions on prayer

    BcauseHeLives: I pray throughout the day.&nbsp; I talk to God a lot.&nbsp; I kind of think I need to do better on a more formal prayer time though.&nbsp; I know I need to do better on giving Him time in my day.&nbsp; Such as prayer &amp; study of His Word. As a little girl when I first became saved&nbsp;the first verse I memorized was If you ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 6, 2009
  • Re: Misconceptions on prayer

    pooh girl: Nadine30: How much should someone pray anyways?&nbsp; I know it should be from your heart. Pray without ceasing ideally. I think something like pray continually throughout your day. Not some big ritual, but prayerful thoughts as you work, clean, go to school, drive or shop etc. When others and things come to mind pray silently as you go
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 6, 2009
  • Re: To date or not to date :)

    Hot Ice: There&nbsp;are the questions about committement that you and he both need&nbsp;to ask, that I didn't read you having asked: ''To exactly&nbsp;what are you both willing to be committed (specifically, point by point)''? ''On what are you both willing to base the power that commitment?'' ''What are you both (individually) hoping for as ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 6, 2009
  • Re: This is a wake up

    divorce in church: http://www.worldmag.com/articles/15597 &nbsp; &nbsp; Eleventh-hour faith What comes when all hedge funds run dry | Amy Henry EB75/iStock EBDesperation has a way of forging a greased path from my mouth to God's ear. It is a cable connection, lightning quick: God, help us. We have no job. The house will not sell.
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 5, 2009
  • Re: Answers For Aunt Samantha

    divorce in church: Its really time for Christians to step up and stop sinning. Until Christikans stop sinning things will not turn around. &nbsp;I agree, however, christians are always going to be sinners, until they get to heaven.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Are you talking about ''habitual sin'' or just sin in general? (IE: you see a pretty lady ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 5, 2009
  • Re: Sexual Discipleship.....for men only!..?..

    Formerlyalpha, This article is good information.&nbsp;&nbsp; Thanks for sharing.&nbsp; In your title you put for men only...&nbsp; now do you mean that this thread is for ''men only'' to respond, etc.. or do you mean for men only as in this article is speaking to ''men only''?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; If you meant that you only wanted men only to ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 5, 2009
  • Re: To date or not to date :)

    shimmylicious05: See that's where it gets all fuzzy.&nbsp; We are committed and exclusive and all of that to each other.&nbsp; It just seems his problem comes from the actual words/titles of ''boyfriend/girlfriend''.&nbsp; He's fine with using it about me to other people, but to say it to me seems like a huge milestone for him... like a huge ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 4, 2009
  • Re: Please Tell Me Im Normal

    dallasapple: Well..I supose I&nbsp; actually miss him now.Not that much..but an inkling.I KNEW I was right.I &nbsp;think Im going to be slightly happy to see him.Plus I worry how he ''stayed away''. He shouldn't have to run off from his own home.We were just stuck together to much ya'll..(too much for me).I left too..I stayed at my mothers over ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 3, 2009
  • Re: To date or not to date :)

    bestofky: shimmylicious05: I've asked him before if he was dating anyone else and he tells me ''No I don't do that''&nbsp; He said when he is getting to know someone, he is getting to know only that girl.&nbsp; And I asked him if we were exclusive, and he said yes we are.&nbsp; I have asked him what if I were to date someone else?&nbsp; He said ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 3, 2009
  • Re: To date or not to date :)

    shimmylicious05: I've asked him before if he was dating anyone else and he tells me ''No I don't do that''&nbsp; He said when he is getting to know someone, he is getting to know only that girl.&nbsp; And I asked him if we were exclusive, and he said yes we are.&nbsp; I have asked him what if I were to date someone else?&nbsp; He said he would ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 3, 2009
  • Re: Brokenness

    I`m sorry you are going through what you are going through Gabby...thats a shame that people mistreat those especially in the body of Christ.&nbsp;&nbsp; I have too often wondered how many of us in our congregation are going through so much stuff in their lives.&nbsp;&nbsp; Atleast I know I`m not the only one, and I`m in good company.&nbsp;&nbsp; ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 3, 2009
  • Re: Misconceptions on prayer

    boatmen:I'm insane.&nbsp; I have an invisible friend that I talk&nbsp;with throughout the day.LOL!!!&nbsp;&nbsp; Me too, except I`m not insane. :P&nbsp;&nbsp; Thats cute.
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 3, 2009
  • Misconceptions on prayer

    Here are some misconceptions on prayer: 1. It`s boring z-z-z-z-z-z 2. It`s for the ''ultra'' spiritual 3. God doesn`t always answer 4. My prayers don`t really make a difference so why bother? &nbsp; Results of prayerlessness: -- we have more ''world'' in our thoughts -- We feel further away from God -- We have less of God in our ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 2, 2009
  • Re: SAHM/W - What is your routine?

    BcauseHeLives: Thx everyone! Cherina, I'm going to print those out...thank you SO much for sharing your thoughts with me.&nbsp; My goal is exactly that, to make our home a safe haven.&nbsp; It's been a place of chaos for several years because of the extreme busyness of our lives.&nbsp; I'm amazed...and I know it's truly through the grace of ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 2, 2009
  • Re: SAHM/W - What is your routine?

    Also making a house a home is that the wise women builds her house, but the foolish one tears hers down. ''To build'' means, literally, to make and to set up a house. This word not only is the structure and upkeep of the home, but also to the family itself. A home is not only a place; its also people. The wise women diligently and purposefully ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 1, 2009
  • Re: SAHM/W - What is your routine?

    BcauseHeLives: I'm looking forward to being a SAHM/W in beginning in November.&nbsp; It's been 9 years since I've been home full time, I'm out of practice. And I'm so excited I just think it will be fun to think about, talk about &amp; plan. Any routines?&nbsp; Suggestions?&nbsp; Advice?&nbsp; Funny stories? Etc, etc, etc? First off ...
    Posted to Women's Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on July 1, 2009
  • Re: Fathers Make a Difference Month

    Just to add, fathers do make a huge difference.&nbsp;&nbsp; Happy father`s day to all the fathers out there.&nbsp; :)
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 18, 2009
  • Re: Fathers Make a Difference Month

    I think it`s a marvelous idea.&nbsp;&nbsp; Speaking of fathers, I will be fixing my h`s favorite meal and desert&nbsp;on father`s day, the kids will be writing him a meaningful note/card to show how much&nbsp; they appreciate their father, and we will give mine and h`s father a nice card, and perhaps invite them to dinner with us.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 18, 2009
  • Re: Very exciting update!

    I am really happy for you. That is great that you and your h are now&nbsp;on the same page.&nbsp; Not only will you be glad to be home, but so will your children.&nbsp; Your h will be too.&nbsp; It`s amazing how you will be less exhausted, and have more time to clean, cook, go to the store, etc. without feeling like you have no time to take a ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 18, 2009
  • Re: My grandbaby is dating!

    Oh Dallas, He is precious! Just absolutely precious.&nbsp;&nbsp; Thanks for sharing these pictures.
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 18, 2009
  • Re: Summer vacations anyone?

    PearsandGrapes: pooh girl: chaz345: pooh girl:Disneyland is a place I wouldn't mind visiting sometime and the SD zoo too. I have been to Disneyworld so many, many times here I just like to see Disneyland once. I wonder how they compare. I heard that Knott's Berry Farm out there is great from others who have visited.Disneyworld is 30some odd ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 11, 2009
  • Re: Summer vacations anyone?

    pooh girl:Disneyland is a place I wouldn't mind visiting sometime and the SD zoo too. I have been to Disneyworld so many, many times here I just like to see Disneyland once. I wonder how they compare. I heard that Knott's Berry Farm out there is great from others who have visited. I`m not sure how disneyworld and disneyland compare... however, I ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 10, 2009
  • Re: Summer vacations anyone?

    Unfortunately, we are not going on vacation this year. We usually go every other year, which is ok..&nbsp;Thats&nbsp;just the way the ball&nbsp;bounces. (money wise)&nbsp;&nbsp; It`s just hard when you feel like a snow cone melting from where I live..) &nbsp;&nbsp; Chaz...&nbsp;&nbsp; I have to say, I envy that you get to go to Disneyland, Sea ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 10, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    SeekingHisPeace: Nadine30: SeekingHisPeace: Nadine30:Are you saying that they do ask Jesus into their heart, *but* they just don`t remember a time or date when they litterally invited him into their lives?&nbsp; They just don't put an emphasis on that moment.&nbsp; There is more emphasis on asking for forgiveness of sins which is ongoing for ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 1, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    SeekingHisPeace: Nadine30: Hot Ice: SeekingHisPeace: ''........I don't think&nbsp;anyone of any religion&nbsp;can assume they are saved.&nbsp;&nbsp;It's not possible to know what He will decide.''&nbsp; I didn't get this; could you help me with what you meant? I don`t get this either.&nbsp;&nbsp; I clarified HI's question right ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 1, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    Hot Ice: SeekingHisPeace: ''........I don't think&nbsp;anyone of any religion&nbsp;can assume they are saved.&nbsp;&nbsp;It's not possible to know what He will decide.''&nbsp; I didn't get this; could you help me with what you meant? I don`t get this either.&nbsp;&nbsp;
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 1, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    SeekingHisPeace: Nadine30:Are you saying that they do ask Jesus into their heart, *but* they just don`t remember a time or date when they litterally invited him into their lives?&nbsp; They just don't put an emphasis on that moment.&nbsp; There is more emphasis on asking for forgiveness of sins which is ongoing for Catholics.&nbsp; ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on June 1, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    SHP, &nbsp;When you said this&nbsp;: ''Yes, the believe they are saved.&nbsp; Yes they believe they will go to heaven.&nbsp; They just go about it differently''.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; is probably where I got thrown off.&nbsp;&nbsp; I`m just clarifying here,&nbsp;so bear with me. Are you saying that they do ask Jesus into their heart, *but* ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 31, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    SeekingHisPeace: Nadine30: Hot Ice: Thanks, SHP.&nbsp; I will study Martin Luther. Well, actually, I haven't yet heard how Catholics do believe they are saved, how they do believe they will get into heaven,&nbsp;seeing as how they don't believe the same as born-again believers do.&nbsp; How about help with that? This is my question ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 30, 2009
  • Re: Witnessing to Catholics

    Hot Ice: Thanks, SHP.&nbsp; I will study Martin Luther. Well, actually, I haven't yet heard how Catholics do believe they are saved, how they do believe they will get into heaven,&nbsp;seeing as how they don't believe the same as born-again believers do.&nbsp; How about help with that? This is my question too...&nbsp; since the catholics already
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 30, 2009
  • Re: MARRIED HOUSEMATES!!!!!!!

    That would be pretty frusterating to have to live with a man that is that insecure. It sounds like you really want him to trust you and you don`t know what to do.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; If he really does love you and just won`t express that, it may be because he doesn`t really know how. I can see your frusteration through this.&nbsp; It sounds ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 24, 2009
  • Re: Help!

    Hey Jane, &nbsp;I don`t think you are over reacting either.&nbsp;&nbsp; I will be praying for you.&nbsp; I hope your h is keeping his nose clean.&nbsp; He sounds defensive.&nbsp; You have a right to hold him accountible...especially since that was the original agreement from his history.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 24, 2009
  • Re: Amy Alcon on Sex Drive

    I have heard others say, (even here on this very&nbsp;forum) that&nbsp;the wife feels sexually connected to her H when he meets her emotional needs first, and the H feels emotionally connected when she meets his sexual needs first. Don`t get me wrong, both h and w have sexual and emotional needs.&nbsp;&nbsp; So who goes first??&nbsp;&nbsp; I think ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 11, 2009
  • Re: Amy Alcon on Sex Drive

    Quoted by DALLAS:&nbsp; ''Besides that?..Talk to a man that has a grilfriend or wife that feels like she is doing him a favor by having sex when she doesnt want to.Or she is doing it out of a feeling of obligation or duty.Or under some sort of threat(not pysical) just threat period that he might leave or cheat on her or retaliate somehow.You ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 10, 2009
  • Re: Amy Alcon on Sex Drive

    pooh girl: What if you marry a person who does desire sex regularly&nbsp;and then years into the marriage they don't care so much, then what?&nbsp; What you going to do if that happens?&nbsp;&nbsp; Personally, I believe we should always try to listen to our spouses needs and try to work togehter to meet them.&nbsp; Even if it's uncomfortable we ...
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 10, 2009
  • Re: Why men view porn

    WOW!&nbsp; This topic is a perfect description of how men and women are so different.&nbsp; It`s a wonder H`s and W`s cross wires so much.&nbsp;&nbsp; This is just a forum, and there is this much wire crossing...just imagine in real life.. EEEEEEEEEK
    Posted to Family Forum (Forum) by Nadine30 on May 7, 2009
  • Re: Why men view porn

    divorce in church: divorce in church: Nadine30: Nadine30: This is a very good thread, and very interesting.&nbsp; I will be following this, considering I think my h still looks at porn here and there.&nbsp; Dic