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Last post 09-12-2008, 6:49 AM by PearsandGrapes. 3 replies.
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  •  08-16-2008, 8:02 PM 19211

    Question

    I had a discussion with my pastor, and I have a question.  He said that all ministry is focused on the body of Christ and helping his people to grow.  Is adopting a ministry or isn't it?  Please explain why it is or is not. 
    Grimley
  •  09-02-2008, 7:24 AM 20919 in reply to 19211

    Re: Question

    We adopted, and while we didn't go into it because we saw it as a ministry...we quickly saw that God was making it one.

    Through fost adopt, we had social workers coming in and out of our home and were able to see us live out our faith...good and bad days and all.

    We were able to have a hand in prison ministries by writing to our dd's birth mother while she was incarcerated for doing meth while pregnant. Our hearts grew so soft towards those behind bars that we have contributed to Prison Fellowship Ministries.

    Other Christians have decided that maybe God was pricking at their heart to be open to foster care and adoption.

    I find your pastor's opinion about ministry interesting.  Christ did not come to heal the well...I am not saying the body does not need to be ministered to, BUT to limit ministry to only the body is not what God intended...IMO.

    Christ's ministry was not limited to the temple...he was out with the people.  The dying, the broken, the hopeless...we are to be imitators of Christ.  Not everyone is called to the same kind of ministry...we are all different parts of the same body.  We need to seek God and find where HE wants us to be the hands and feet of Jesus. (Again...IMO)

    Not everyone's ministry is called for the many...sometimes, God wants people that are willing to minister to the few...the ones who are easily forgotten or unseen.

    If God is asking "Whom shall I send"...I know that we please Him when we say, "here am I, Lord send me."

    God bless you!  Adoption has been a HUGE blessing to our family! 


    2 Timothy 2:15
    Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.
  •  09-11-2008, 3:13 PM 23164 in reply to 19211

    Re: Question

    If he takes the line of thinking that ministry and outreach are two completely different things, then I can see where that definition might make sense.  But then again, what if the children you are adopting are CHristians? Wouldn't adopting them be helping the people of the body of Christ grow?

    I understand where a pastor, who almost always has more things to get done than people to to them can easily come to the point of wanting to limit the definition of ministry to helping at the church that you belong to, but I just can't agree that in order for something to be ministry, it has to serve the local Church. Consider this.

    Did Christ have a ministry?  Obviously yes He did. Ok so which local church did He belong to and serve?  Maybe Christ is a bad example since He is The Church. How about Paul?

    Chaz345
  •  09-12-2008, 6:49 AM 23212 in reply to 20919

    Re: Question

    Just wondering if you had any updates, grimley ed?
    2 Timothy 2:15
    Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.
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