Ladies, how do I help my daughter not freak out on her wedding night? I was not raised in a Christian home, and first had sex as a young teenager. (My mother suggested I go on the pill at 13, just because she knew I would have sex at some point, giving me the ok more or less). I was saved at the age of 29, my daughter was 4, so she has been raised in a Christian home. I have emphasized the importance of virginity, and she is now attending a private Christian college that has very strict rules about dating, etc. I do not consider myself to be naive. I know when she was in high school, she had a boyfriend and they did get a little close physically, but she has told me she never had intercourse. She was pretty appalled when she went for a pap and pelvic, actually, sickened. She will most likely marry next summer, and I want to prepare her as much as possible for that first time. I know she must think it will be romantic and special, but if not prepared, I fear she will be horrified. (Face it ladies, it can be pretty shocking) All the movies glorify that special time. I know I will bring up the subject first by talking about having children and birth control. I think she needs to go on the pill now, if they don't want children right away, to adjust. That's a good intro, but am looking for any other advice. She is a beautiful young lady, with her intended being a great, respectable, young man. He has called and asked her hand in marriage, and will be proposing soon.
