All of us have questions about relationships, as many of us have already been married once... Or twice... Or we've been independent for a long time... We often don't get easier to get along with as time goes on... And we often have trouble feeling bonded as a couple the second or third time... Does this mean we shouldn't consider marriage with a new, special someone?.... I think it's possible to have correct servant-based courtships and marriages, but it requires making good, servant-based choices day upon day upon day... I think it is a crying shame when we allow the hasty relationship decisions of our difficult past to repeat themselves into our future. I also think it's possible to not do that...