Well dad has been gone a couple of weeks now, the day before he died his wife asked me to go to uk with her to take his ashes, the day after he died she said she couldnt take me anymore as couldnt afford too, im gutted as i have no way of affording it as solo mum with 3 children, so in a few weeks he will be taken home and put with his parents and the whole family will be there but me.

Lynn,

I am so sorry for what you are going through.

Praying for you,

George Landes -   Perito Meso (DX November 2009 / HIPEC Surgery May 2010 / Recurrence June 2012 )

I've been thinking of you, and how you are holding up. I'm so sorry that this has come up, it so many times seems as though we get 'kicked' when we are down. I hope something works out for you.
Diane

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Diane
Caregiver of Thomas (my Dad,82)
Pleural epithelial meso
dx 11/10
Our battle ended March 16, 2012. Together.

Lynn-I too am so sorry that this has happened. Maybe you could do your own ceremony, or could any other family or friends help? It sucks. Thoughts and prayers. Rose

good thought Rose, sometimes we forget to call on our closest friends for support. So sorry that you are unable to go and I am sure your children would also like to have some type of ceremony to pay tribute to their grandfather.

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Mary Hesdorffer, NP
Medical Liaison, Mesothelioma Foundation

Maybe she would be kind enough to give you some ashes to place near you.

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HUGS
bonnie
Peritoneal survivor 10 YEARS