Meso Discussion Group

Re: Starting over

klingermstn — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 03:55:47 GMT

Diane....enjoy yourself with your husband and your mother-in-law. Take one day at a time, remember your dad now by keeping your good memories close in mind, and know you did the best you could for your Dad. You will find a new job when the time and and the setting is just right for you. Right now, relax, rest, and "regroup". This is a first step in your new "normal". Warmest hugs!!!!

Re: Starting over

olewarhorse — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 23:57:13 GMT

Life is for living and enjoying, your Dad would have wanted that for you. Have a wonderful time on vacation.

Re: Starting over

mary hesdorffer — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 16:26:22 GMT

Diane, have a good time, you deserve some enjoyment in life. I am sure your dad wants you to live the life you were meant to live before mesothelioma intruded upon you all. You did a fantastic job as a caregiver and I hope that you will continue to post and help others on their journey. You have good instincts, and you are loved by this group. Sending you a huge hugs and wishes for a satisfying vacation
Mary

Starting over

mistertoadie — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 14:35:31 GMT

Hi Everyone~
Today my husband and I are heading to Florida for a week. We're going to stay with his mother, she was very supportive while I was taking care of Dad, and I made a promise to her and myself a while ago that I would be down as soon as we were at peace. Hoping to have a good time, though I miss my Dad terribly. Now that he isn't here, it's made me realize what a huge part of my life he really was. I also quit my job, and when I'm ready, I want to do something that I actually enjoy. The only reason I kept working there as long as I did is cause it was only 2 minutes from Dad's house. Taking one day at a time and trying to stay very busy is pretty much where I'm at.
Hope everyone is well.
Diane