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Starting over

Last post 04-04-2012, 8:55 PM by klingermstn. 3 replies.
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  •  04-02-2012, 7:35 AM 74740

    Starting over

    Hi Everyone~
    Today my husband and I are heading to Florida for a week. We're going to stay with his mother, she was very supportive while I was taking care of Dad, and I made a promise to her and myself a while ago that I would be down as soon as we were at peace. Hoping to have a good time, though I miss my Dad terribly. Now that he isn't here, it's made me realize what a huge part of my life he really was. I also quit my job, and when I'm ready, I want to do something that I actually enjoy. The only reason I kept working there as long as I did is cause it was only 2 minutes from Dad's house. Taking one day at a time and trying to stay very busy is pretty much where I'm at.
    Hope everyone is well.
    Diane
    Diane
    Caregiver of Thomas (my Dad,82)
    Pleural epithelial meso
    dx 11/10
    Our battle ended March 16, 2012. Together.
  •  04-02-2012, 9:26 AM 74741 in reply to 74740

    Re: Starting over

    Diane, have a good time, you deserve some enjoyment in life. I am sure your dad wants you to live the life you were meant to live before mesothelioma intruded upon you all. You did a fantastic job as a caregiver and I hope that you will continue to post and help others on their journey. You have good instincts, and you are loved by this group. Sending you a huge hugs and wishes for a satisfying vacation
    Mary
    Mary Hesdorffer, NP
    Medical Liaison, Mesothelioma Foundation
  •  04-04-2012, 4:57 PM 74742 in reply to 74740

    Re: Starting over

    Life is for living and enjoying, your Dad would have wanted that for you. Have a wonderful time on vacation.
    HUGS
    bonnie
    Peritoneal survivor 10 YEARS
  •  04-04-2012, 8:55 PM 74748 in reply to 74740

    Re: Starting over

    Diane....enjoy yourself with your husband and your mother-in-law. Take one day at a time, remember your dad now by keeping your good memories close in mind, and know you did the best you could for your Dad. You will find a new job when the time and and the setting is just right for you. Right now, relax, rest, and "regroup". This is a first step in your new "normal". Warmest hugs!!!!

    Irene
    widow of Hermann
    dx 07/07
    sarcomatoid pleural meso
    dod 03/08
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